Spent the weekends looking through some stuff and recollecting some incidents (instead of memory and cog, like now)
FRIENDS!
Friends are formed through the interpresonal relationship you establish with another person. & the beauty of it all, all great friendships starts with a small unexpected conversation, be it formal or informal. Makes me recollect mine...
There are lot more kinds of friendship other than the different kinds of friendship that was mentioned in dev. ( which till now i cant remember, & no longer need to remember)
professional friends
social friends
deep,emotional friends
intellectual friends
self-actualized friends
buddy friends
school friends
& the most interesting kind of friendship that caught my eye was the frenemy!
Frenemy= FR iend + ENEMY
it is someone who pretends to be a friend of yours but views you as an enemy, from within. It may also be related to some what of a love-hate relationship. It is a friendship clustered with much hatred and jealous. It is something like, I want to be your friend BUT you cannot be better off then me & I will make sure you do not get what you want in life. Makes me wonder how many of such friends have I crossed in my life so far, without me even realising.
So the point i am bringing on here, why maintain the friendship then?
Is this person worth your friendship?
Is it justifiable to have a frenemy in life?
Well, ultimately friendship is the only few relationship you can get to choose in life. Some last for hours, some for days, some for seasons, some for decades while some others for lifetime.
I think it is one of the best relationship a person should have. & one has to be fortunate to get a friend who can always be there to count on and walk through with you in your journey of life.
& I am definitely fortunate to have found a few awesome friends who would stand by me <3
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